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Why Your Comfort Zone is Quietly Killing You
And Why Uncertainty Beats Regret Every Time

27 - 04 - 2025
Happy Sunday everyone,
Did you know it doesn’t take 21 days to form a habit? Turns out, that's just motivational folklore.
Researchers at University College London found the actual number averages around 66 days, but good news: missing the occasional day won't ruin your progress.
Real change takes time, so keep going - consistency matters more than perfection.
In today’s email:
Why The Pursuit Of Comfort is Slowing You Down & what to do about it…
Why Uncertainty Beats Regret Every Time & how to lean into it…
Confidence Is Rising In The UK Retail Sector & why prices are going up…
POWER SURGE
Why Uncertainty Beats Regret
It’s nearly May.
The year keeps rolling on, indifferent to whether we’re reaching our goals or not.
I don’t buy the whole “new year, new me” philosophy. Dates are just man-made points on a calendar with little real-world significance.
But the changing of the months is a great reminder to look back on your life recently and try to catch yourself repeating patterns, or avoiding putting in the work.
I find myself stuck in the same patterns more often than I’d like, frustrated and somehow still hoping for different outcomes.
They say, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results" (Shout-out to Far Cry 3).
Yet we still cling to our routines, habits, even relationships, then act surprised when life doesn’t feel any different.
Part of it comes down to nostalgia. We all tend to look back with rose-colored glasses.
It's easy to forget that those "perfect" moments weren't actually perfect; they've just been airbrushed by our memory into something better than reality.
But chasing a past that no longer exists is wasted effort. It’s literally only in our heads.
The uncomfortable truth is that improving yourself often feels less like an inspiring movie montage and more like repeatedly “breaking up” with your favourite bad habits.
Whether that’s gaming, Netflix marathons, snack binges, or nicotine, these rituals are tough to quit because they’ve helped us fight off bad feelings, and nobody warned me I’d actually miss them.
So why bother hacking off pieces of yourself when it’s too painful?
The fear of the unknown is nothing compared to the pain of staying where you don't belong.
Uncertainty is unsettling, and the anxiety around change is real, but it pales in comparison to the satisfaction that progressing gives you once you start moving forward.
The mind is a funny thing, and we can change our perspective just by framing things differently.
Maybe confusion and uncertainty aren't signs you're lost; maybe they're signs you're evolving.
"I am not lost. I am simply becoming."
This framing takes the sting out of uncertainty and makes it feel less like wandering and more like building.
Here’s the bottom line:
Stop trying to erase uncertainty.
Embrace the discomfort that comes with growth.
Choose movement over stagnation.
You don’t need perfect clarity to begin—you just need to take a step. Because uncertainty might feel uncomfortable now, but regret will haunt you forever.
Just start moving. You’ll figure it out.
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LOOK INTO THE LIGHT
Here’s 3 Great Things You Missed Recently:
A Lloyds Bank survey indicates UK retail sector confidence at its highest since August 2015.
Retail sales rose sharply in January and February, supported by the fastest real income growth in nearly a decade.
63% of businesses plan to raise prices, reflecting strong consumer demand and economic resilience.
KAIST researchers unveiled a neuromorphic semiconductor chip capable of self-learning.
The chip processes information similarly to the human brain, enhancing AI efficiency.
This advancement could lead to more energy-efficient and adaptable AI systems.
Aardvark Weather introduces AI-driven forecasts, providing accurate weather updates within minutes.
The system improves prediction precision, aiding sectors like agriculture and logistics.
This technology represents a significant leap in meteorological services.
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“Regret weighs heavier than uncertainty ever will.”
2. “Do one thing every day that scares you.”
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